GINA GINA Tuesday.....and a beautiful tuesday it is

TODAY: forgive, forget, move on, give it time and everything will be alright

........a gentleman owned a wellness center, as a matter of fact he had owned several of them, he had Reiki Masters, Ayurvedic Estheticians, Massage Therapists and many other employees of the wellness world that worked for him, at his businesses........for many years........some of them 15-20 years.........he got into some financial trouble and overnight he was shut down, he lost his businesses and all the people that worked there lost their place to practice their crafts........... he was very sad at what had happened, he felt bad about all that took place and the difficulties it was placing on all those people that worked for him...... an unfortunate thing to happen, I'm sure he didn't want to lose his businesses and livelihood, he had a family, wife and kids, so he understood how this was going to affect those around him, and like I said, he felt bad, but it was what it was and there wasn't anything he could do.......... here's the sad part........ many of those people that worked for him started lashing out at him, to his face, on the internet, what ever way they could...... mind you, we are talking about people in the "wellness industry", Reiki Masters and alike, many of them he had considered friends, most of them had been with him for years........... not one person reached out to him........... not one of those "wellness industry" people said "don't worry we'll find another place to work, it will all be okay, take care of your family, don't worry"....... not one person could find it in their heart to help a man that was down and out, even though he had given them a place to work, for many of them their entire career as these "wellness practitioners"....... and not one of them was capable of raising their own vibration, to take the high road and lift some of the weight off his back, not one...... a week after he was closed down, one week of hearing all these people lash out at him because they felt they were done wrong, he went to his favorite hiking trail and took his life......... I cried when I heard this story, I couldn't believe that not one person in his life could tell him "things will be alright, give it time, your wife loves you, your kids love you and I  thank you for giving me a place to practice my craft of wellness"........ now he's gone and those same people that lashed out at him are feeling sorry for themselves, saying things like "I guess I shouldn't have", "I wish I could have", "if I had known I would have"

Well, I don't believe in "should of, could of, would of"..... if that was the case, then why didn't they.......... if just one of those "wellness people" had practiced in real life what they were charging other people to have (reiki clarity, ayurvedic wellness etc. etc.) that man could very well still be alive. Maybe he just needed someone to say "I forgive you, let's forget this and all move on", he might then still be alive.

In close: no matter how wrongly you think someone has done you, no matter what your impression of a situation is........... remember, we are all creatures of this beautiful Earth, we all breath the same air, we all need water and food to live, and we all, from time to time, will need someone to forgive us, forget what it was that happened and just move on.......... don't be the reason, someone that is in a desperate and alone moment, takes their own life......... be the reason of hope and encouragement........ be the one that steps up and says "everything will be alright, just give it some time"

Be thoughtful and kind, always...........

Lucy Blu
for: positive living in sin city